Support for Families of Patients

One topic that consistently pops up is the effect mental illness, self medicating and suicide has on family members. I have talked at times about the challenges of being George’s mom and the ups and downs, mixed emotions and guilt. Hindsight is always cruel as you ponder what you may have done differently and imagine the outcome as a positive situation. It is a fool’s game. Acceptance of the present situation is the way to go.

Chelsea and I have spoken often about the lack of support or information for siblings who have lost someone to mental illness. For a parent, losing a child is the worst thing that can happen, however there are books, articles and support groups. For siblings you will be hard pressed to find anything. When we lost George, Chelsea found 1 article online that was helpful, but definitely not enough.

We would like to open a dialogue and perhaps begin a Facebook group for siblings and other family members to chat, support each other and share experiences.

Comment, email let us know what you think!

PS This also includes friends that are like family!

Lisa YeagerJuly 25, 2020

My name is Lisa Yeager, I am George’s mom and the founder of GBY3 Foundation. George’s life was an amazing adventure that became a wild roller coaster ride due to mental illness. Our family attempted to educate ourselves as much as possible in order to help and support George in his struggles. In the 18 months since his passing while grieving and planning this foundation, the one thing that stands out more than anything is the need for education among students and erasing the stigma that surrounds mental health issues. Young people need to know it is OK to ask for someone to talk to. Adults need to listen with empathy and understanding. Looking to end your life is not a solution to any problem, neither is hurting yourself. My hope is to begin a nationwide conversation that puts our young people at ease with their social emotional health and encourages them to explore resources including counseling, therapy, self help, physicians and music and art therapy as well as yoga and meditation for self care.

In years to come we hope to influence change in the healthcare system for mental health patients to meet their needs in all health arenas and help prevent homelessness. The entire health and well being of the patient must be addressed and not dictated by lack of insurance or inconsistencies in government systems and health institutions.

It’s OK to not be OK…